Chapter III

An ordinary day

Most of life doesn’t happen in the big moments, but in the habits that repeat every week.

Gym & pitch

About a year of lifting. Evenings after work, split into Push / Pull / Legs. The goal isn’t muscle — it’s a body strong enough that the mind can be quiet.

MonPush — chest, shoulders, tricepspush
TuePull — back, bicepspull
WedRest, walk the dogrest
ThuLegs — quads, hamstrings, gluteslegs
FriOptional extra sessionfree
WeekendA football matchball
A “standard” week (in reality it shifts around meetings).

Tending the mind

Reading Buddhist psychology to understand how my own mind works. Currently in the “Nội lực” (Inner Strength) course with a small buddy group — learning to stand steady from the inside.

The four-legged one

My most patient teacher. Has never read a Buddhist text, yet lives in the present far better than I do.

The kitchen

Always in the fridge: oats, bananas, chicken breast, yoghurt, milk. Simple, cheap, enough protein.

Confession: I don’t eat eggs. Especially boiled ones.

Place

Hanoi, a corner outside the Red River dike. In the late afternoon the river wind comes in, car horns mixed with birdsong.